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    Love Types: ESFJ

    If You Are the ESFJ: Dutiful Host
    "Love is based on serving others."



    You Are Someone Who:

    Values harmony in your relationships.
    Displays goodwill toward others.
    Is a great party organizer.
    Is the perfect host.
    Is very family-oriented.

    If You Are Female, Your Best Matches Are:
    ESFJs: Dutiful Hosts
    ESTJs: Traditionalists

    If You Are Male, Your Best Matches Are:
    ESFJs: Dutiful Hosts
    ISFJs: Caretakers

    If You Want to Win the Heart of Your Ideal Mate, Do the Following:
    For ESFJs:
    *Help your perfect host plan a party, wedding, or bar mitzvah.
    *If you're planning the date, fill them in on the details and make sure you don't deviate from your schedule (unless you give them plenty of notice).
    *Talk about everyday topics such as the latest trends in fashion, finances, or entertainment.
    *If you invite your ESFJ over, make sure your home is neat, tidy, and aesthetically pleasing.
    *Join your ESFJ on social outings to restaurants, nightclubs, comedy clubs, and anywhere else people are enjoying themselves.
    For ISFJs:
    *Show as much caring, tenderness, and respect as you possibly can.
    *Express your gentle, family side: talk about the kid brother you love or the eccentric uncle you adore.
    *Woo your ISFJ with good, old-fashioned courtship; giving and receiving flowers and candy, taking long walks along the beach, and cuddling by the fireplace.
    *Go slow with them, especially in the area of sex.
    For ESTJs:
    *Keep the conversation practical and down-to-earth.
    *Let your ESTJ decide where to go and what to do on dates; then join him or her for the ride.
    *Avoid excessive sentimentality and a "touchy feely" attitude--keep it real and straightforward.
    *Express your interest, affection, and loyalty in practical ways such as buying groceries and cooking for your date.
    *Spend time with their family and friends and become a part of their inner circle.
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    INTP - The Thinkers

    If ESFJ's love by being needed to serve, they they should get an INTP.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mortabunt View Post
    If ESFJ's love by being needed to serve, they they should get an INTP.
    lol, hopefully my friend will come post on this today :)

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    INTP - The Thinkers

    Quote Originally Posted by TreeBob View Post
    lol, hopefully my friend will come post on this today :)
    LOL, yeah I just saw this. The statement above makes sense to me. I think I do need to have things imposed on me a bit. I need to be needed by her quite a bit, which on paper, is sad but it is a very harmonious relationship as long as the gates of communication are wide open. It makes a world of difference. Speaking of difference, I very much value & enjoy the balance she brings. She brings wisdom, for sure.

    SJ
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    Quote Originally Posted by SJ1974 View Post
    LOL, yeah I just saw this. The statement above makes sense to me. I think I do need to have things imposed on me a bit. I need to be needed by her quite a bit, which on paper, is sad but it is a very harmonious relationship as long as the gates of communication are wide open. It makes a world of difference. Speaking of difference, I very much value & enjoy the balance she brings. She brings wisdom, for sure.

    SJ
    If anyone is wondering, he is dating an INTP

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    INTP - The Thinkers

    Quote Originally Posted by TreeBob View Post
    If anyone is wondering, he is dating an INTP
    ....right.

    I'm at work and doing 10 different things at the moment.
    Thanks Tb.

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    I thought the ideal match for an ESFJ was an INFP?!
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    Think again! Because only what the personality descriptions say go and your opinion doesn't matter!
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    INTP - The Thinkers

    Skewed idea of reality he said.

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    Unknown Personality

    I know an ISTJ (male) with an ESFJ (female) and they are miserable....... she wants petted all the time (flowers, romance etc) and he does it to keep her quiet...though he is disgusted by it. She thinks he is cold.
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