So I met this guy in the college I was applying to, we related to a couple of thing, so we became friends. It got pretty mundane because we were mostly talking through texts and I am more of a face-to-face type of person. Yet, I understood because we had our exams at the time. A lot riding on them and so. During the time we talked, he'd tell me about his plans for us in the summer. Working out together, forming the band we always wanted, going to parties every week, he even promised he'd teach me how to drive (Yes 18 and I don't know how yet, the agony )
So, I got excited, because even though I have a very "I never want to stay at home" tendency, all of my friends were house bugs, and I never went out much, as to not force them out of their shell-like homes. "Someone to make me experience new things" is what I thought.
Following the end of the year, we finally met again because we were taking a crash course at my house before the exam, and again he'd tell me 'we're gonna spend the summer together, you went out without me, ah man' and similar stuff. After the course, I never saw him again. We'd set up band meetings, and he'd make up excuses. i'd invite him to my outings and again excuses. It got very frustrating, and I was disappointed. Having honestly lost hope today, because I asked him what he was up to these days, and he says "He hasn't been doing much, because his friends still had exams, and others were lazing around the house."
At that point I just said, they're done, enjoy yourself, he said to say hi to my friends and that was that I deleted the chat. I was disappointed because of promises that I actually believed.
Sorry about that I was just upset and wanted to vent to someone. I feel down when people can't live up to the expectations they set to themselves. I also feel like I was used, what do you guys think?