INFP here. What do you think of INFP ans ESFJ friendships? Is it difficult or easy to be friends with
an INFP as an ESFJ? I've had an ESFJ friend for a long time (over 10 years) and I only learned ater discovering MBTI that she's easily hurt and I may have been too direct to her on several occasions. (2 years ao) She ended our friendship (through messaging and only after I asked what's wrong), because we we drifted apart in her opinion and because I'm "mean" to her. Now the thing is I don't even really know when I was mean to her and she said that she thought about what I said to her for several days and asked herself "Why does she say that?" And I was kind of blown away, because I don't remember any insult or remark I could have made that would make her depressed for days. Now normally I would have asked her When exactly was I mean to you? But before that she said that if I asked her and she told me, we would just fight and she doesn't want that. So really what should I have done? I thanked her for being honest with me and that I'm really sorry for all the times I hurt her. No contact after. What do you think about that? Is that a typical situation between an INFP and an ESFJ in a friendship or is that an individual problem?