I was hoping some ESFJ's may be able to offer some advice in this area .. It just seems to be something i do not understand .. I was told today by my partner/someone i am seeing/a person, that they want to deeply connect with me. He is an NF and a very deep person .. and although i suppose i am in some ways, i don't really give it to much though .. I show my affections in ways that are comfortable to me, i don't necessarily think in terms of deep, more practical.
So i was wondering are you able to connect deeply with your partner? Does it come easily?
What does deep mean anyway? It is so ambiguous in the first place.
Also .. (yes i am a pain in the ass ;))
How do you behave overall in relationships, are you very trusting of the other person? Do they easily show their appreciation to you? Do you ever come across as cold and detached? Do people easily take advantage of your good/caring nature?
I am just curious as i am starting to think it may be me who is broken .. I don't like being broken .. I also don't like this negative thinking.
Thank you in advance :)