Maybe this is a weird question, I dont know. People enter my heart almost immediately and become important to me. When I get to know somebody knew I want to spend a lot of time with them and I think about them a lot.
Honestly, how do I know the difference to when I fall in love? I sometimes almost become obsessed with the new people I meet, especially if they need help in some way I cant get them out of my head.
Falling in love would be the same, in a way. Wanting to spend tons of time with that person, thinking about that person constantly,...
No, I do not have the "butterly feeling" anymore. Haven't felt that in years and I dont trust that feeling either.
Maybe this is simply because of what happened in my past, but I wanted to see how other EFSJs know they have fallen in love and wether or not people in general capture your heart super quick.