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This is a discussion on A conniving ESFJ against an INTJ within the ESFJ Forum - The Caregivers forums, part of the SJ's Temperament Forum- The Overseers category; I don't think it's reasonable to be mad at someone for being nice to you. I say let it go ...

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    I don't think it's reasonable to be mad at someone for being nice to you. I say let it go for now. Just be very unavailable and if he gets flirty, just openly say you're not interested. Don't be afraid to take steps for self preservation, like blocking him if it gets to it. But it seems okay so far, to me.
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  2. #32
    INTJ - The Scientists

    Quote Originally Posted by Blue Ribbon View Post
    I don't think it's reasonable to be mad at someone for being nice to you. I say let it go for now. Just be very unavailable and if he gets flirty, just openly say you're not interested. Don't be afraid to take steps for self preservation, like blocking him if it gets to it. But it seems okay so far, to me.
    I'm currently in a battle between taking his past actions against me and let him sulk in regret, or take things in a new slate and start anew.

    I may have been too focused on myself as a natural way of protection, I may have missed the real reason on his end, why he had to do all those.

    It's just to hard to give him the benefit of the doubt again. Given the facts I have against him.

    And it's too unconventional for one to keep on pursuing me in such a way, if there is no ulterior motive behind it.

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  3. #33
    INTJ - The Scientists

    I just want to vent out my frustration, I've always been left out by my workmates when they have outings. I'm never invited, I've always noticed that they always choose him to attend instead of me. I know I'm different, but I try my best not to be dissociative. I never start issues nor talk ill of anyone, but at the end of it all, they never choose me to be with them.

    I'm just sad about it and I can't complain to anyone at work because I will be ridiculed.

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  5. #34

    Hey @chelon

    I'm really sorry to read that

    Internet hugs coming your way.

    Has the situation with Mr ESFJ improved any?
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  6. #35
    INTJ - The Scientists

    Quote Originally Posted by orion83uk View Post
    Hey @chelon

    I'm really sorry to read that

    Internet hugs coming your way.

    Has the situation with Mr ESFJ improved any?
    Thank you. Yes, he did actually for a period of time. I posted an event on this thread on how he treated me very kindly. Like before, when he didn't have a girl yet. But what does he expect from me; Just shove the almost 2 years that we were passive aggressive towards each other? So he distanced himself again, a little bit playing safe again.

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  7. #36

    It's very hard for an INTJ to deal with ESFJs in an straight forward way... Unless you blackmail him, make him go to jail, or get fire blah blah ...

    The best solution here is totally avoid him. Never meet him again.

    I once share room with an immature ESFJ. Such a pain in the ass. Thank God It's all over now. He judged my lifestyle, talking too much and too much, did not respect my space, my alone time. And when I told him to shut up, refuse being manipulate, then he became passive aggressive, mocking me and all bullshit stuff...
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  8. #37

    I just want to say that in a fight between an ESFJ and an INTJ, I'll be cheering for the ESFJ. And I want to say to the aforementioned ESFJ: "Kick'em in the nuts!" :)
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  9. #38
    INTJ - The Scientists

    Quote Originally Posted by Strelnikov View Post
    I just want to say that in a fight between an ESFJ and an INTJ, I'll be cheering for the ESFJ. And I want to say to the aforementioned ESFJ: "Kick'em in the nuts!" :)
    I can make him suck me if I wanted too though

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  10. #39

    Quote Originally Posted by chelon View Post
    I can make him suck me if I wanted too though
    That was unexpected
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  11. #40
    INTJ - The Scientists

    Quote Originally Posted by orion83uk View Post
    That was unexpected
    Yeah. Coz he's really receptive to me. And he makes it known to me when he gets jealous - covertly though. For instance, we were travelling and just enjoyed our legs and arms touching each other, when I started talking to the person on my other side he sat straight and moved away from me. It surprised me. Another example, when I was using his powerbank, he didn't want my phone to be removed while walking, so I had to walk beside him and put my hand on his shoulder near me coz i was carrying the phone while it was charging in his hand. But, I make it obvious that I am not bothered about his girl anymore and we can just be good buddies, but just not to lead me on.

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