Forgive me as this questions has probably been asked 21098324903248 times before, but i am genuinely curious about your relationship with the intj's in your life. are you friends? coworkers? family? etc. do the ones you know personally, piss you off? or make you laugh? I only asked because after giving it some recent thought, i actually have gotten a long very well with esfjs the past few years. Its to the point where a couple of my close friends are one, and a girl i like a lot happens to be one. I found that i have common ground with many of you guys, as we both appreciate structure and security in our lives, and that i can have future focused and deep discussions with you as long as i try not to get too abstract and keep the conversation grounded. Which is something that would've bothered me more in my teenage years, but as i got older i learned i can't entertain everyone with my ni ideas in there purest form so i learned, (even if just a little bit) to bridge the gap between abstract and concrete ideas so i can converse with people easier. Plus your tert Ne when more developed is refreshing, because its not overwhelming (like how enfp's can be for me sometimes), but its just enough for me to pick up on and find interesting and relatable. I will admit that some text book esfjs are still a bit of a challenge for me, but i found that as opposed to disliking each other, we more so tend to acknowledge each others existence and move on.
Anyway enough of my blabbering, what is your relationship like with the intjs in your life?
Disclaimer:all posts will go into notes to help me relate better to an esfj girl i like lol