I can't figure out this ESFJs enneagram type.
Here are some strong characteristics that he has that make it hard to know which type he is for sure:
-He is very helpful and will bend over backwards for people. 2?
-Nurturing, likes to take care of ppl. 2?
-Has a very wide social circle. 3?
-skillfully navigates the social arena, knows how to make useful connections 3?
-Extremely manipulative 2 & 3?
-Can almost never get the "truth" out of him, the truth keeps changing to whatever he thinks the other person wants to hear. But if the other person wants the truth it won't happen 3?
-Needs lots of praise 3?
- Humble 2? but needs to be seen as successful 3?
- Good at self promotion 3?
- Can defame the crap out of you and turn around and pretend your the best thing ever to your face lol - 2 or 3?
If you have any real life descriptions of an ESFJ enneagram 3 please share!