Was wondering if any of my fellow ESFJs have experienced this. I recently went on a group trip with people that I know only casually for a a few months and I noticed that I felt like I was being pretty quiet the whole trip. Letting others do the majority of the talking and instead having quieter more one-on-one conversations etc. I don't know if this is just because I'm getting older but I'm not feeling the need to be the center of attention in a group. I don't even know if this is supposed to be an ESFJ stereotype or not but I feel like people always say we're so chatty. And yes, I can make small talk with anyone and do enjoy talking with close friends but I guess I just wonder how you ESFJs feel in group talks. I'm not sure if it's just that I don't know them all that well and am trying to figure out how the social dynamics play out before commenting or just that I don't want to compete with other people who are more "aggressive" in getting their turn in etc... just curious how you all feel you are in group conversations.
Thanks so much for your insights!