I'd like to know how other ESFJ's deal with their weaknesses.
I find myself needing a lot of compliments to feel good about myself... find it difficult to accept the end of any friendship but once I do... moving on couldn't be easier... find it to difficult to accept negative things about ppl close to me and usually I have to get ppl to be upfront about negative things about themselves to avoid me getting pissed off and I try to find negative things in ppl at the beginning of knowing them just so I wouldn't get too pissed off at them in the future and know not to let it affect our friendship... I find myself getting extremely annoyed when people tell me the most obvious things I'm already are such as me talking about something no one cares about except me... it's just very insulting to me... as for friends who are ESFJ's... I love saying nice things because they're selfless people and they sincerely appreciate my compliments... they're very strong with making me feel good about myself and I'm very strong at them making feel good about themselves too... I can't see myself getting upset with another ESFJ even if both of us chat with each other and we're both in crappy moods... we'll both end up making feel each other feel better... other ESFJ's love to have positive thoughts about other ppl in their heads just like me and enjoy anything positive about people close to them.
Anyway, I would like to know how other ESFJ's interact with people of the same type.