Hello, people. I am an INFJ and for quite some time i ve been hanging with this ESFJ girl. When i think of her, I do love her a lot, but, she doesnt make my type(her values are not strong, and she seems a bit too normal for me). SO my idea is to make our friendship turn into something like lovers, not necessarily a long term relationship. I know she wants it (I see it all LOL). BUt she is very afraid. how to turn this?