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2K views 8 replies 4 participants last post by  PeachyKeener 
#1 ·
Okay seriously, would it kill some ESFJs to have some patience. If they want me to do some chore and I'm not crazy about doing it right at the moment, it doesn't mean I won't get it done eventually. Why can't they just relax?? The world isn't going to fall apart if I do the dishes 10 minutes later. Why is it sooo important to fuss over really MINOR things that don't even matter? Is it just the lack of ability to see the big picture?
 
#8 ·
I definitely agree about the whole maturity vs. age thing. I myself am only in my mid twenties, some people look at me, say younger looking than my age, but then I sometimes speak/think older as well.

A "healthy" ESFJ have several traits that can be seen in comparison to their "unhealthy" shadow selves, I just can't 100% remember what they are, but I remember reading them somewhere.
 
#7 ·
Cause generally the things we are trying to get you to do, when done, means you can complete your other various tasks (or other people can complete their various tasks) more efficiently.
Generally.
Like washing the dishes - other people want to cook or wash their own dishes, can't do it 'cause there's dishes in the sink etc. Very important to do your chores in a timely manner when you live with 6 other people.
 
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