Okay seriously, would it kill some ESFJs to have some patience. If they want me to do some chore and I'm not crazy about doing it right at the moment, it doesn't mean I won't get it done eventually. Why can't they just relax?? The world isn't going to fall apart if I do the dishes 10 minutes later. Why is it sooo important to fuss over really MINOR things that don't even matter? Is it just the lack of ability to see the big picture?