This is a discussion on ESFJs = Rare on the Internet within the ESFJ Forum - The Caregivers forums, part of the SJ's Temperament Forum- The Overseers category; Originally Posted by Margo Channing In my opinion, they don't use forums as often cuz you don't get an immidiate ...
They are out partying or talking to people in person. I've dated a few and that is my experience!
I'm here! New today...Though, admittedly I might not stick around long if this forum isn't hoppin' enough lol
"just came back from ___'s party, woohoo :):)"
"hanged today with ___ and ___ and ____ and (million other people)"
"oh i have to tell, i drove so long trip today... woow"
"cooked some spaghetti, YAY FOR ME :):):)"
"i'm the best<3"
"if you truly care about me, post a heart under this post. :) post this post on your own wall too and see how many people truly loves you!!!"
Like others said they expect everyone to respond immidiately... Many times in MSN my ESFJ friends have posted "hi whazzup?", and then 10secs later "are you there, hellooo....." and 20secs later they go offline And the next time whining about me not answering. Many of them are like, "what?? you were doing something else tham MSN or Facebook? :O" haha.
So no, I guess internet is not a thing for them... But maybe that's a little good point for them, like not tending to be too engaged to computers?
I think ages have a lot to do with it too. I'd rather send a text to someone rather than call them... because at my age and the age of most of the people I talk to... I'm more likely to get an immediate response by texting than by calling. Also, if the person I'm trying to get in touch with is out at a bar or sporting event then I won't be able to hear them on the phone, so texting is the most effective.
I used to be on the internet more a few years ago... As in, I'd spend about 12 hours a day on the internet... And forums... and email... And Facebook/MySpace... And MMORPGs... Now I just don't have all the time to spend online that I used to! Looking at my calendar for this week, I only have one night that I don't already have something scheduled.... Granted, most of that is because of wedding planning.
The immediate response really doesn't bother me... Mainly because I tend to post something and then ADD kicks in and I venture off to another forum or site... or actually do some work. And then come back later to see if anyone has replied... And if not, then it's back to the other forums and sites.
My mom barely knows how to use a computer.
She only uses email, and she thinks search engines are browsers and browsers are operating systems o_O
Also, her computer is a piece of crap. 16 gig hard drive D:
I taught my ESFJ mother how to use facebook and a couple days later I had to adjust my privacy settings.