Me and my father don't have a good relationship, I am an INFJ and he is an ESFJ and we're totally different. I feel like whatever I do weakens the relationship rather than strengthens it and I just wanted to ask how do you ESFJs like to be treated and how do you not like to be treated. Also, do any of you know an INFJ? What do you not like about them? What would you want to change? I know I sound silly but I really want to make it work. I love him and he loves me but there is no connection and I know I can't force one but I want things to be better. Any advice you can give would really help. Thank you.