Ha it all starts to make sense. I think my partner is an ESFP. He's never wanted to settle with anyone in the past before he met me. female ISTJ) Now he claims his love and wants to get married and all that jazz. Well he says he does and I have to believe him I suppose. The only problem I have with him is that I find it incredibly hard to trust him because he's such a sociable creature and enjoys being with friends, chatting to strangers without me there. He seems to like his space and freedom. After arguing about it ALOT, we are finally starting to compromise. Been together for 13 months. Been very rocky, but we cant seem to stay mad at each other for long when we are in each others company.