I need advice from any esfp's who could possibly help me in a situation with an esfp friend.
A little background: This esfp is a very good friend for years.
The current situation that I'm experiencing with her is that she tends to think that guys are fair game. If there is someone I'm interested in, I can be fairly certain that she might go after him. If I express that I'm somewhat interested in a guy, but don't think it's a good idea to pursue a relationship with him (difference in political or religious views for example) she wastes no time in pursuing something with that guy. I'm not the only friend that she's done this to. To me, there is an unspoken "girl friends code" that you just don't step on your friends toes so-to-speak. There was a time when she wouldn't have done this, but at this point, I've almost come to expect this type of behavior from her. She's even told me that she has a problem, that she needs every guy to like her. She recognizes the problem, but doesn't want to change the behavior. I really am at a loss as to how to proceed.
Thanks in advance for the insight!