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This is a discussion on Ask an ESFP within the ESFP Forum - The Performers forums, part of the SP's Temperament Forum- The Creators category; Originally Posted by Aberone Q: When an ESFP is under a lot of stress or some stress due to work ...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aberone View Post
    Q: When an ESFP is under a lot of stress or some stress due to work and personal things, (if anyone could answer this as how it is like when you're a teenager thanks) what do you start to think, what do you do and how can anyone make this more comfortable for you, or help you?
    Wow 3 questions but nvm, thanks already! c:
    Hola! It's perfect for you to meet me, because I'm teenager ESFP. So let's get to the questions!

    1) What do you start to think? I either deal with the core of the stress or if I don't think I can do that or just don't want I become very unproductive and procrastinate horribly. I just sometimes can't even start doing something, when I'm stressed. And I have been so frustrated with myself in the past, that I created thread in perC and explained my feelings at the time they happened: https://personalitycafe.com/advice-ce...ta-do-but.html
    It really sucks to be honest. Most of the time I horribly wanna just end the stress.

    2) What do you do? I accidentally answered it in my previous answer lol. As you have read I do nothing and when there is smallest fraction of time I just do all I can and in huge frustration of myself. Personally I should have read like 15 books this summer, guess what happened? Well teacher likely forgot to mention, that we should read those. My memory is rather good, so I'm pretty sure she didn't. We have a law to not assign students to do work on holidays. So I'm lawful bastard. I know, that I should read all that stuff, but I just can't even start doing that. I'm really pathetic human being. It sucks, it doesn't feel good, I'm lost, yet mental block of reading is present, after all I should just read, but my mind is like "one doesn't simply read books". I can only bear frustration, nothing more. It's all fucked up.

    3) How can anyone make this more comfortable for you, or help you? Probably not much, but most of time I wouldn't mind friendly chatter or some random activity. I think it should help a bit. Maybe even being social may be helpful. Just something do that , that is perceived to be more valuable, than just doing that stresses me. It's really hard to say exact things. Also I'm somewhat bad at understanding my own feelings.

    I hope I answered all the stuff you wanted to know

  2. #1002

    Quote Originally Posted by The red spirit View Post
    Hola! It's perfect for you to meet me, because I'm teenager ESFP. So let's get to the questions!
    .....
    Thanks! This answered all my questions. It's good to meet a fellow teenager, I'm a 15 yo ENFJ ;).
    Again, thanks for answering. Btw your not pathetic, I should've read 7 english books but *ahem* never mind that (I mean, it's SUMMER, I'm too busy bingewatching movies with my friends instead of reading books...)

  3. #1003

    Quote Originally Posted by Aberone View Post
    Thanks! This answered all my questions. It's good to meet a fellow teenager, I'm a 15 yo ENFJ ;).
    Again, thanks for answering. Btw your not pathetic, I should've read 7 english books but *ahem* never mind that (I mean, it's SUMMER, I'm too busy bingewatching movies with my friends instead of reading books...)
    Once I ran out of time in physics test and before knowing results I told my friend "It's more likely for me to build rocket and go to space, than pass that test". Now I have 16 days left and I didn't even took a look at book list. Sucks. That's probably a thin I call "metal block". Definition: I want to do something, but I can't just simply do it. There's no reason why I can't, but I just can't, that's it. Then frustration begins and eats me alive until deadline saves me (even if I fail the task). I'm pretty sure it's pathetic.

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    If i am an esfp..
    @Aberone

    Q: When an ESFP is under a lot of stress or some stress due to work and personal things, (if anyone could answer this as how it is like when you're a teenager thanks) what do you start to think,
    - I just wanna quit everything. And just do something else.

    what do you do
    - Distract myself from something new.

    and how can anyone make this more comfortable for you, or help you?
    - Well if the main goal is interesting or it's my passion then no problem, eventhough it's hard i will still pursue it no matter how hard or stressful because i want it. But if not, i kinda tend to experiment something else.

  6. #1005

    Why are ESFP's stereotyped as being crazy outgoing party animals, hot popular cheerleaders who bully the nerd, and/or shallow + selfish attention seekers?

  7. #1006

    Quote Originally Posted by Little Lady View Post
    Why are ESFP's stereotyped as being crazy outgoing party animals, hot popular cheerleaders who bully the nerd, and/or shallow + selfish attention seekers?
    because dom Se
    Clockheart thanked this post.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Little Lady View Post
    Why are ESFP's stereotyped as being crazy outgoing party animals, hot popular cheerleaders who bully the nerd, and/or shallow + selfish attention seekers?
    >crazy outgoing party animals
    E, Se
    >hot popular cheerleaders
    E, Se again
    >bully the nerd
    E, Fi, tert Te
    >shallow
    apparently all S are stereotyped as shallow
    >selfish attention seekers
    Fi, E, inf Ni

    But yeah, these are just stereotypes.
    The red spirit and Little Lady thanked this post.

  9. #1008

    Quote Originally Posted by Clockheart View Post
    >crazy outgoing party animals
    E, Se
    >hot popular cheerleaders
    E, Se again
    >bully the nerd
    E, Fi, tert Te
    >shallow
    apparently all S are stereotyped as shallow
    >selfish attention seekers
    Fi, E, inf Ni

    But yeah, these are just stereotypes.
    I would have explained it very similarly, if person asked why.

  10. #1009

    Quote Originally Posted by The red spirit View Post
    I would have explained it very similarly, if person asked why.
    Quote Originally Posted by Little Lady View Post
    Why are ESFP's stereotyped as being crazy outgoing party animals, hot popular cheerleaders who bully the nerd, and/or shallow + selfish attention seekers?
    I did.

  11. #1010

    Quote Originally Posted by Little Lady View Post
    I did.
    What you did?


     
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