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This is a discussion on Ask an ESFP within the ESFP Forum - The Performers forums, part of the SP's Temperament Forum- The Creators category; Originally Posted by pancaketreehouse What's any paranoia look like for you guys? If you could explain your thoughts and all ...

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    ESFP - The Performers

    Quote Originally Posted by pancaketreehouse View Post
    What's any paranoia look like for you guys? If you could explain your thoughts and all if you ever get paranoid thoughts, dark ways of seeing things, mistrusting factual evidence and looking past prima facie meaning of things.
    I can't stand paranoia. People that act like that annoy me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fat Bozo View Post
    I can't stand paranoia. People that act like that annoy me.
    They annoy you? Do people with anxiety annoy you as well?

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    @Fat Bozo @Yeahright


    hey yeah come on bozo, you never suffer from anything similar?
    and i dont think the people are always like that, it's just a shadowy negative side of the person

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  5. #494
    ESFP - The Performers

    Quote Originally Posted by Yeahright View Post
    They annoy you? Do people with anxiety annoy you as well?
    Sometimes, yeah.

    Quote Originally Posted by pancaketreehouse View Post
    @Fat Bozo @Yeahright


    hey yeah come on bozo, you never suffer from anything similar?
    and i dont think the people are always like that, it's just a shadowy negative side of the person

    !
    Nah, if anything I have the opposite problem. I'm often blindsided by things because I never imagined the "dark way" of seeing things. You're right that most people are not like that all the time, but there are some that seem to be so paranoid and insecure that it's hard to deal with them.

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    My advice is to learn to deal with them because they're going through some shit, they're not there to annoy you. Maybe if you help them they wouldn't be so "annoying".

    Man it's no wonder ESFPs have a bad reputation, I hope all of us ESFPs aren't like this.
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  7. #496

    Hey guys ( @Yeahright & @Fat Bozo)
    lets not Te rule draw too fast
    bozo is a good guy
    but i do gotta agree
    it's like the reputation the esfp gets for bailing on his friend
    when his family member dies because he's sad and the vibe is down
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    Yeah we have a bad rep for bailing on people and writing them off, so ive heard. I try not to do that since it was done to me before and it hurt. I've gone thru suffering in my life so if someone else is I do my best to at least not ignore them. Just my 2c

    Exceptions to this are when he won't pass that blunt lol. High paranoia is annoying, but also funny
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  9. #498
    ESFP - The Performers

    Quote Originally Posted by Yeahright View Post
    My advice is to learn to deal with them because they're going through some shit, they're not there to annoy you. Maybe if you help them they wouldn't be so "annoying".
    Well first, I didn't ask for your advice, I just answered the question. Second, I didn't say anyone was "there to annoy" me. I was just honest about how someone constantly expressing paranoia makes me feel. And I *do* try to help anyone I can when I know how and they let me.

    Man it's no wonder ESFPs have a bad reputation, I hope all of us ESFPs aren't like this.
    Good news! All ESFPs are a little different. We all have our strengths and weaknesses like anybody else.

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    ESFP - The Performers

    Quote Originally Posted by pancaketreehouse View Post
    Hey guys ( @Yeahright & @Fat Bozo)
    lets not Te rule draw too fast
    bozo is a good guy
    but i do gotta agree
    it's like the reputation the esfp gets for bailing on his friend
    when his family member dies because he's sad and the vibe is down
    Well thanks for saying I'm a "good guy." I try.

    I don't bail on anybody just for being sad. The only time I have bailed is if someone has shown they just want to wallow in their misery forever and is *unwilling* to let me or anyone else help them. Keeping such a person in my life is not compassion, it's just a recipe for making my mental health fade.
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  11. #500
    INFP - The Idealists

    Hello there!
    I would like some advice. My younger 15-year old brother is clearly an ESFP. I'm not sure how to handle him and I'm also a bit worried about him/his future. He's intelligent but doesn't do any effort for school and cannot stay focused. He also doesn't like advice. He's extremely social and wants to talk to everyone, even if he doesn't know what to say. Yesterday he was giving someone directions about how to get somewhere - in French- while he didn't really know the way himself. He has quite some talents, but lacks discipline to develop them further: he is good with music (he hated the pianolessons though), writing stories, cooking, tasting, remembering names (especially of nature related things), tunes, movie quotes. He loves cartoons and playing with Lego (the only moment of the day that he is calm and concentrated). How can I stimulate him to concentrate or focus a little more? I understand that everyone is different, and the way he is is not just the result of his personality type. But I think it might help to know what kind of things stimulate other ESFP's to concentrate on something and develop their talents.


     
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