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  1. #531

    1. So much to do, too little time.
    2. Only like drama on the stage or in the movies. Dislike people going on and on with complaints. Don't like hostility, negative energy, which I absorb because I don't have any boundaries. It makes me feel icky inside. All I learn is that people are annoying and they need to calm down and stop bugging meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!

    Quote Originally Posted by maenad View Post
    heres my questions:
    1. why are you all always super impatient?
    2. secoundly, it list that you all have trouble with drama/loathe conflict, why is this? do you not find it useful to learn from?
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  2. #532
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    1. Are you more neat or messy ?
    2. Do you find yourself to be cunning (most esfp I know are)", but curious)
    3. Do you misplace things easily or forget your keys /purse/phone etc at restaurants/shops
    4. Have you ever taken theater
    5. What are your pet peeves
    6. Do you prefer to be chase or do the chasing yourself

  3. #533

    Quote Originally Posted by ai.tran.75 View Post
    1. Are you more neat or messy ?
    2. Do you find yourself to be cunning (most esfp I know are)", but curious)
    3. Do you misplace things easily or forget your keys /purse/phone etc at restaurants/shops
    4. Have you ever taken theater
    5. What are your pet peeves
    6. Do you prefer to be chase or do the chasing yourself

    1. I am super messy. You might find me amidst a cleaning rampage every now and then, but the inspiration for that is a divine gift. I like my stuff messy, it makes me feel like I know what I'm doing and nobody else possibly could.

    2.This is the manipulation vs persuasion thing I find a lot. I'd say I'm more persuasive if I have a real feeling behind something. If I want something, I can make a case for it, but I don't think I'm a good objective, detached manipulator of stuff. If cunning is the charm of a salesman, then sure, I can be. I like the idea of being cunning so if I see an opportunity for it, I'll go for it.

    3. Always. I left my phone in a cab twice in the same day. Doesn't even matter if I tell myself to remember something.. that's like writing a memo with invisible ink. Ya just forget ya ever wrote it down. Sometimes I'll remember the exact place of something, and that's a nice donum deo.

    4. I took an improv class, but that was before I really had confidence in myself letting loose. I think with a couple of friends as support, I'd be happy to take more theatre stuff. I haven't been in a play. I had too many reasons not too.. bleh. Didn't seem like me back then.

    5. I guess bad breath if that counts, someone who clearly denies his own mortality. I don't like when people eat their boogers or eye goop or whatever the fuck they choose to eat. I'm not really a CLEAN person but there are some things that seem gross on all levels.

    6. I like the idea of a chase, but oh gosh, if I can have the attention from someone else, and decide what to do with it, or how to respond, mm mm i like that. When someone wants to chase me, I welcome it


    Thanks for the questions!
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  5. #534
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    Quote Originally Posted by pancaketreehouse View Post
    1. I am super messy. You might find me amidst a cleaning rampage every now and then, but the inspiration for that is a divine gift. I like my stuff messy, it makes me feel like I know what I'm doing and nobody else possibly could.

    2.This is the manipulation vs persuasion thing I find a lot. I'd say I'm more persuasive if I have a real feeling behind something. If I want something, I can make a case for it, but I don't think I'm a good objective, detached manipulator of stuff. If cunning is the charm of a salesman, then sure, I can be. I like the idea of being cunning so if I see an opportunity for it, I'll go for it.

    3. Always. I left my phone in a cab twice in the same day. Doesn't even matter if I tell myself to remember something.. that's like writing a memo with invisible ink. Ya just forget ya ever wrote it down. Sometimes I'll remember the exact place of something, and that's a nice donum deo.

    4. I took an improv class, but that was before I really had confidence in myself letting loose. I think with a couple of friends as support, I'd be happy to take more theatre stuff. I haven't been in a play. I had too many reasons not too.. bleh. Didn't seem like me back then.

    5. I guess bad breath if that counts, someone who clearly denies his own mortality. I don't like when people eat their boogers or eye goop or whatever the fuck they choose to eat. I'm not really a CLEAN person but there are some things that seem gross on all levels.

    6. I like the idea of a chase, but oh gosh, if I can have the attention from someone else, and decide what to do with it, or how to respond, mm mm i like that. When someone wants to chase me, I welcome it


    Thanks for the questions!
    Haha - funny I can relate to most of what you commented :) especially #1 3 and 5

  6. #535
    ESFP - The Performers

    Quote Originally Posted by maenad View Post
    1. why are you all always super impatient?
    2. secoundly, it list that you all have trouble with drama/loathe conflict, why is this? do you not find it useful to learn from?
    1. Because waiting is the act of doing nothing, and doing nothing is boring/unproductive/wasteful/submissive... nothing but bad things. Why do nothing when you can do something? This is why I neglect sleep. (Wow, this is very Te... it's cuz i'm tired)

    2. Social drama happens when people hold grudges. People need to get over things. What happened happened... move on loser. I don't shy away from conflict, but I rarely see the point in starting a ruckus. Loathing conflict... I want everyone to get along. Let's all be friends. But at the same time, if you don't like me that's your problem. Not mine. Forgive and forget, lets have fun.

    Quote Originally Posted by ai.tran.75 View Post
    1. Are you more neat or messy ?
    2. Do you find yourself to be cunning (most esfp I know are)", but curious)
    3. Do you misplace things easily or forget your keys /purse/phone etc at restaurants/shops
    4. Have you ever taken theater
    5. What are your pet peeves
    6. Do you prefer to be chase or do the chasing yourself
    1. messy, but I always know where everything is; except when I don't, and when that happens I just turn on my Ni and it pops into my head. I useful trick to learn. Turning on your Ni is as simple as turning off Se. If you meditate you know how to do this.
    2.Yes, very. I'm silver tongued. Unfortunately emotional manipulation is the hallmark of an ESFP; we're very good at is. ESTP's are the same with logical manipulation. "So Se doms are ***holes", is what a girl just told me as I was typing this.
    3. Very very rarely. That's usually an Ne thing. It's rare for the Se's doms to overlook details unless they're stuck in they're head with they're introverted functions. So only if I'm zoned out too much, or I'm super focused on something else.
    4. No, but Everyone tells me I should. I will really soon.
    5. When people get mad when I don't call or text them. When someone does something half-assed. When you tell me I'm gonna hurt myself, or get hurt.
    6. Chasing is just more fun. Becuase when i'm chasing i'm have more control, and I much more bold. When I get chased most chicks just pussy foot around me, trying to gain my favor. Where really all they need to do is be straight forward. But to be honest, if I know I can have them whenever I usually won't bother. And when I do... I won't stick around. Just being honest.
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  7. #536
    ENTJ

    Quote Originally Posted by walking tourist View Post
    1. So much to do, too little time.
    2. Only like drama on the stage or in the movies. Dislike people going on and on with complaints. Don't like hostility, negative energy, which I absorb because I don't have any boundaries. It makes me feel icky inside. All I learn is that people are annoying and they need to calm down and stop bugging meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!
    brother is like that. Us ESTPs are the knock doors down types when it comes to confrontation, we have no issues with it. probably explains why him and I argue from time to time. Think its you alls FI right?

  8. #537

    give us more questions, people!

  9. #538
    ESFP


    Quote Originally Posted by ai.tran.75 View Post
    1. Are you more neat or messy ?
    2. Do you find yourself to be cunning (most esfp I know are)", but curious)
    3. Do you misplace things easily or forget your keys /purse/phone etc at restaurants/shops
    4. Have you ever taken theater
    5. What are your pet peeves
    6. Do you prefer to be chase or do the chasing yourself
    1. I think I'm somewhere in the middle, but I tend toward messy.
    2. I am fairly cunning sometimes, but not always in a good way. I do whatever I need to do to get what I want.
    3. I don't misplace things more often than most people I don't think.
    4. I did, I was very shy back then and hated it.
    5. People who are intolerant, hypocritical, or overly sensitive.
    6. I prefer to be chased, but if I'm not being chased, I'll do the chasing myself.

    There you go!
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  10. #539

    Quote Originally Posted by ai.tran.75 View Post
    1. Are you more neat or messy ?
    2. Do you find yourself to be cunning (most esfp I know are)", but curious)
    3. Do you misplace things easily or forget your keys /purse/phone etc at restaurants/shops
    4. Have you ever taken theater
    5. What are your pet peeves
    6. Do you prefer to be chase or do the chasing yourself
    1. Messy but I know where everything is. Unless it needs to be in order, it won't be. But I do like having a somewhat tidy area.
    2. Yes, quite
    3. No actually I have a pretty good eye on everything.
    4. Yep love it, love acting and being on stage or camera
    5. I'm not sure right now but if someone did them I would easily know. I hate people telling me what to do, absolutely hate it, so that's one.
    6. Both! I think it's fun when both sides are doing the chasing
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  11. #540
    ESFP - The Performers

    Quote Originally Posted by maenad View Post
    heres my questions:
    1. why are you all always super impatient?
    2. secoundly, it list that you all have trouble with drama/loathe conflict, why is this? do you not find it useful to learn from?
    1. I WANT IT ALL AND I WANT IT NOW

    2. Uhhhh I like some drama, and I don't loathe ALL conflict. I try to learn a little from everything.


     
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