Met a girl at work who I thought was amazing. She flirted, I flirted back and asked her out but she turned me down. I gave up, she started fucking douchebags. Never flirted with her again. Found out later when I discovered MBTI that she is ESFP. That made me realize why I liked her so much. Now she´s talking all kinds of shit behind my back and in front of me. Now she´s fucking someone who calls her names behind her back.
Met another girl online and knew pretty quickly that shes ESFP. We talked a lot but somehow we never met. I told her about our types and she didn´t understand a thing. I gave her up because I didn´t wanna go down the same road with her as I did with the first one. She said we could have been friends for life or even more. Although I realized that she thought she had found someone better than me because of some stuff she wrote on facebook. A few months later she contacted me again when she was heartbroken and thought she had a chance with me. I recently discovered that she is promiscous.
The moral of the story is that you shouldn´t be a slut if you want to succeed with an INTP. I´m not trying to pass judgement on peoples sexlife, but an INTP dont want to feel second best. Once you´ve found an INTP you like have patience and dont sleep around.