[ESFP] Are ESFPS and ISTJS better as friends or lovers?

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This is a discussion on Are ESFPS and ISTJS better as friends or lovers? within the ESFP Forum - The Performers forums, part of the SP's Temperament Forum- The Creators category; Thoughts? I'm curious because my ESFP and ISTJ mutual friends are dating...just wondering how it might play out....

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    ISFJ

    Are ESFPS and ISTJS better as friends or lovers?

    Thoughts?

    I'm curious because my ESFP and ISTJ mutual friends are dating...just wondering how it might play out.



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    ISFJ

    Anyone?

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    Lovers
    (Yes, I followed you from the ISTJ forum)

    I'm kind of curious why you're so interested in this question though?

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    ISFJ

    I'm intrigued about mbti relationship matches in general and have been exploring different theories to see which one seems more plausible. I keep seeing that istj and esfp are natural matches, but I can't get my head around it (this and other keirsey matches). Now that my istj and esfp friends are dating....well, let's just say they're like my guineapigs...lol...and I'm curious about their relationship and how it's playing out. I wish the best for them but I'm also secretly testing my theories too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zeri View Post
    I'm intrigued about mbti relationship matches in general and have been exploring different theories to see which one seems more plausible. I keep seeing that istj and esfp are natural matches, but I can't get my head around it (this and other keirsey matches). Now that my istj and esfp friends are dating....well, let's just say they're like my guineapigs...lol...and I'm curious about their relationship and how it's playing out. I wish the best for them but I'm also secretly testing my theories too.
    are they still dating? how did it play out?

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    ISFJ

    Hi, just seeing this. No, things ended badly...They had a huge argument about two weeks ago in which the istj told the esfp she needed to be more accountable and respectful to him ( in terms of where she went and with whom). He told her she was too 'busy' running from place to place and that her life needed 'fixing'. Esfp blew up at this because she felt the istj was trying to control her and 'put her in a box'. She basically 'let him have it' (verbally) and they haven't talked to each other since. 😕

    I kind of felt that this is how things would've played out, unfortunately. Knowing the two of them I just didn't see it working out. The istj is very structured and traditional, and the esfp very vivacious and spontaneous. I just don't think the two types are very compatible at all.

    The istj has also recently described the esfp has 'empty' and lacking in discipline...
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    never had a ISTJ friend or partner really


     

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