For me personally, I`ve had meaningful realtionships with an ESFJ and an ISTJ in the past 2 years.
ESFJ didn`t work out because I would sometimes poke fun at her (in a loving way) and she would take it to heart. She didn`t like spontaneity, and was really really focused on her family life.
ISTJ didn`t work out because I was not clear about my boundaries in the beginning. Ended up not working out because we both had different ideas of when sex should be introduced to a potential relationship, and overall emotional distance from the ISTJ. This one was tougher for me to get over due to how well we paired type-wise, as there were almost no red flags besides the two mentioned above.