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This is a discussion on INTP female falling for ESFP male - Am I doomed? within the ESFP Forum - The Performers forums, part of the SP's Temperament Forum- The Creators category; Originally Posted by enneagram9 If "picking one" was easy for an INTP, life would be much easier, trust me. Decision ...

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    Quote Originally Posted by enneagram9 View Post
    If "picking one" was easy for an INTP, life would be much easier, trust me. Decision making has always been difficult for me, in all matters, not just head vs the heart. Part of this I think comes from the fact that INs naturally see endless possibilities and can imagine infinite scenarios which can cause us to get "stuck" in our decision making.
    I understand that and sometimes I myself fall into the trap of sacrificing the goon in pursuit of the perfect. I'm sure it's much more difficult for an INTP to just decide that something is good enough, but you when you get stuck in a loop chasing the perfect thing, it's time to just settle for the good enough. Of course it's up to you to decide how long are you going to strive for perfection, but eventually you have to give up.

    ... input from others is helpful, and why forums like this are important. I have decided to break up with him.
    Yes, input from others is always helpful and PerC can be a very useful tool. In the end I'm glad that you made up your mind.


     
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