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    esfp I need your help

    my brother is esfp, and unhealthy one

    in past he was normal, he chat with me go out with me

    he changed after marriage, now he become distant from me but not his friends, he treat me like Im his rival and when he talks to me he uses messages and hints and not direct or frindly with me if you know what I mean.

    now our relationship is like we are acquaintance, even less, if we talk we talk formally.

    my question is I want to know what would upset or cause esfp to breakup friendship or become distant from his friend. or what things esfp highly dislike in other people.



  2. #2

    Is he your brother or your friend? Also, have you tried asking him whats wrong?

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    he is my brother and he is not the type to tell me whats wrong

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    Quote Originally Posted by tsyspublic View Post
    he is my brother and he is not the type to tell me whats wrong
    Hmm well how do you know hes an esfp?

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    Quote Originally Posted by boycalledsoyer View Post
    Hmm well how do you know hes an esfp?
    i can see strong fi and se in him
    impulsive
    outgoing
    disorganized
    take things personally
    live the moment

    im sure he uses se function

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    Honestly, im not sure I can be of much help, im an only child, so the dynamics between siblings is sometimes a little bit confusing for me. But as far as what might upset him as an esfp, I think feelings of betrayal can be a big one. Also jealously, but these things wouldn't really make sense in your case, would they?

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    ESFP - The Performers

    From my experience ESFPs will either tell you what's wrong (albeit in a dramatic fashion) or act up the way your brother is. If the latter is the case, usually just asking what's wrong will solicit a reaction out of them. But clearly something is wrong and he might not be 'breaking up' with you but showing you he's upset with something you did and is annoyed that you didn't realize you were doing something wrong. Not to say you did anything but that might be how he sees it.

  9. #8
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    your right ny brother is not dramatic type

    i asked him whats wrong and he said nothing and i explain that he kept avoiding me alot and he replied that he was avoiding chatting with somebody else not me
    im not sure now if tells the truth and im so sensitive or am i right and he is playing passive aggresive


     

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