I'm on this quest to try and 'woo the man' pretty much as long as I don't have to change my own personality for it. I like him a lot and I'm not going to force him in to a serious relationship if he doesn't want it but I don't really know how to catch his attention since the people in my class are usually very assertive and loud and I sometimes even get ignored.
I've tried my best to be more open about myself and show him more of my personality than I usually would, I've helped him with homework and general stuff and tried to be a little more outgoing when talking to him, so that along with letting him talk me in to going to a party and dancing (not slow dancing obviously) was quite challenging for me since I'm one of the last people to try and loosen up around crowds as a natural ISFJ. (would and ESFP even catch on that I did it for him if he was told a while ago that I was afraid of crowds?) But it was worth it because he seemed to be enjoying it, not that he isn't up beat about everything else too.
I want to do more things that would make him happy, so I thought I'd turn to other fellow ESFPs for advice and suggestions on what I could do.