Hey ESFP folks,
I'm an INTP. She chased me, she was persistent, I fell in love! Now she wants to be just friends all this in just 3 months...
She maintained right from the start she wants friends with benefits nothing serious, I said that's cool with me. We had the most amazing time together. Cooking, Laughing, watching movies etc. We had many misunderstandings leading to many fights but we kept at it. She told me now she wants to take things slow and easy with me. I told her I love her after the first month and she believes me. I am a bit intense with everything I do. I love, fight and have fun all in high intensity. She has said nobody makes her laugh as much as I do. There were times she's clung on to me for her life while laughing almost having a seizure of sorts. I want her back as at least friends with benefits. I have gone through constant messaging phase. Now we're cordial. I went through a LOT of pain.
She has told me she loves the way her sweater smells of me, made up imaginary scenarios including me and her family (she loves her family a lot), she is the youngest of 4 children. We have a lot of fun together. I want that back. I want her back. We still msg at least once a day. I told her after she said just friends from now that I'm insulted byt that and I'm not interested but she was VERY insistent we remain friends cause she loves doing all the stuff together just not the physical part. We didn't even have sex till the second month cause she doesn't do it so soon and I'm the only guy she has broken the rule for and I believe her But lots and lots of make out in that period.
I'm 27 she's 25
Oh and right now she has gone back to her home for her vacation and will be back on the 6th of jan. She has also said I've been the only source of extreme happiness and extreme sadness in this town that we both study in.