[ESFP] Attention ESFP Women: Can an INTJ woo an ESFP and if so how?

Attention ESFP Women: Can an INTJ woo an ESFP and if so how?

Hello Guest! Sign up to join the discussion below...
Page 1 of 4 1 2 3 ... LastLast
Results 1 to 10 of 39
Thank Tree81Thanks

This is a discussion on Attention ESFP Women: Can an INTJ woo an ESFP and if so how? within the ESFP Forum - The Performers forums, part of the SP's Temperament Forum- The Creators category; As the title says. Do you think it is possible for someone like me? What kind of romantic gestures and ...

  1. #1
    Unknown Personality

    Attention ESFP Women: Can an INTJ woo an ESFP and if so how?

    As the title says. Do you think it is possible for someone like me? What kind of romantic gestures and conversation topics help win you over?

    To clarify, she has told me a while back that she found me very handsome, but I'm not sure how to proceed now. Any advice you can offer would be greatly appreciated.
    ogr_ro1 and Dora thanked this post.



  2. #2
    Unknown Personality

    Why would you want to?

    Im actually curious to hear the answer.

  3. #3
    ESFP - The Performers


    Quote Originally Posted by Chipps View Post
    Why would you want to?

    Im actually curious to hear the answer.
    and why not?
    firedell, Sina and Mokek Kwe thanked this post.

  4. Remove Advertisements
    PersonalityCafe.com
    Advertisements
     

  5. #4
    Unknown Personality

    Quote Originally Posted by Kayness View Post
    and why not?
    Because they're just to lovable?
    mAlshafey thanked this post.

  6. #5
    ESFP - The Performers


    Quote Originally Posted by Chipps View Post
    Because they're just to lovable?
    you think I don't get sarcasm?
    firedell, Sina, pericles and 1 others thanked this post.

  7. #6
    ESFP - The Performers

    Quote Originally Posted by perennialurker View Post
    As the title says. Do you think it is possible for someone like me? What kind of romantic gestures and conversation topics help win you over?

    To clarify, she has told me a while back that she found me very handsome, but I'm not sure how to proceed now. Any advice you can offer would be greatly appreciated.

    It's very possible as I am married to an INTJ. We've been together for over 6 years now. It's hard work, but it's really fun. We are complete polar opposites and it makes for interesting conversations lol.

    When I first met him, I found that his wit and intelligence to be very attractive. He made me think and see things differently. Always keeping me on my toes and challenging me.
    Seamaid, perennialurker, Zero11 and 26 others thanked this post.

  8. #7
    INTJ - The Scientists

    Aren't relationships hard enough work as it is? And marriage even more difficult?

    Being in a relationship with a complete polar opposite seems tremendously difficult.

    Opposite interests, opposite energy levels, opposite communication modes, opposite lifestyle ... what's to stop a natural drift apart over time?

    Quote Originally Posted by televator View Post
    It's very possible as I am married to an INTJ. We've been together for over 6 years now. It's hard work, but it's really fun. We are complete polar opposites and it makes for interesting conversations lol.

    When I first met him, I found that his wit and intelligence to be very attractive. He made me think and see things differently. Always keeping me on my toes and challenging me.
    I wish you luck. I hope it works.
    vanizorc and televator thanked this post.

  9. #8

    Why don't you work on being friends with the esfp? Wait on the romantic intentions until the two of you have a chance to see how friendship works. After a while, you'll know how well you get along and if there is a chance that a romantic relationship will work. If it doesn't work out, you'll know and it will be less painful than a romantic relationship breaking up.
    Sina and Cool Breeze thanked this post.

  10. #9
    ENFP - The Inspirers

    for me personally, i am wooed by intellectual people. since intj's value intelligence try stating some interesting facts that most people don't know. its always interesting to learn new things

  11. #10
    ESFP - The Performers

    Quote Originally Posted by Ghostwheel View Post
    Aren't relationships hard enough work as it is? And marriage even more difficult?

    Being in a relationship with a complete polar opposite seems tremendously difficult.

    Opposite interests, opposite energy levels, opposite communication modes, opposite lifestyle ... what's to stop a natural drift apart over time?



    I wish you luck. I hope it works.
    Thank you!

    A bit late with the reply, but I do agree with you that it is difficult. But what relationship is easy with all the changes in dynamics? I find that due to our differences it helps me as a person to grow and stimulate myself in other facets of life that I normally would not have anything to do with.

    With our different interests, lifestyles, and even our logic on things, I believe it helps us more as individuals to be open to learning and personally, intrigued by the differences. It makes me wonder why, how, and it attracts me exponentially to learn as much as I can about him. He grounds me as a person & I do believe that in a way I also ground him. I react emotionally and him practically. We, together, bring about balance and a complete outlook on things instead of a tunnel vision of what and how it should be. And I believe this is how we've lasted as long as we have. It took a while, but I think with the mutual understanding and the acceptance of how this is what and who we are. We are able to build, learn, and even use it to our advantage as individuals and as a couple.
    Figure, Cool Breeze, Cool Breeze and 32 others thanked this post.


     
Page 1 of 4 1 2 3 ... LastLast

Similar Threads

  1. [ESFP] The need for attention from the opposite sex for an ESFP
    By sumaya3357 in forum ESFP Forum - The Performers
    Replies: 53
    Last Post: 04-23-2019, 04:58 AM
  2. [ESFP] Ways to catch an ESFP's attention and not annoy him?
    By mrgreendots in forum ESFP Forum - The Performers
    Replies: 6
    Last Post: 09-09-2014, 08:00 AM
  3. [ESFP] ESFP's and INTJ's
    By Dralud in forum ESFP Forum - The Performers
    Replies: 2
    Last Post: 05-20-2011, 07:42 PM
  4. [ESFP] Hey ESFP Women, What are you most Attracted to & ever date an ENFP?
    By muzik_maker in forum ESFP Forum - The Performers
    Replies: 5
    Last Post: 02-03-2011, 01:41 AM

Tags for this Thread

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
All times are GMT -7. The time now is 10:41 PM.
Information provided on the site is meant to complement and not replace any advice or information from a health professional.
© 2014 PersonalityCafe
 

SEO by vBSEO 3.6.0