I'd like some tips... ;)
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I'd like some tips... ;)
Just wink at them. They'll understand.
Yes, I'd like some tips, also ;)
Where are the ESFP's?? It's been ... 20-something minutes already! Lol
I can't speak for ALL ESFPs but I do believe they are timid with feelings and flirting out of fear of rejection. Hell this is coming from an ENTJ, what is there to be feared? my motto is, you win some, you lose some...Its life!
How to flirt with an ESFP?
Pretty much how you should flirt with anyone else I think. Show them that you are interested. We won't know unless you show it to us. So smile, move in closer to us and let your inner animal of sexual desire take you over. RWAR!
To OP, this is very true! An ESFP won't understand you like them unless they are sure its okay to make a move.
The suspected ESFP I know doesn't flirt... it's weird... he's just kind of, there. He talks to me and tells me about his day and waves to me when I arrive and leave (and then makes a beeline to talk to me lol). Flirting... I got more from the ESTJ than I do from him.
Be nice to them. Mission completed.
Hm ok, I'm a girl, and I guess you're more interested in finding out how to flirt with an esfp male, but anywaysss...
- Look at me. Like if I catch you looking at me I will notice that you've noticed me and I like that :D
- Smile at me. I love smiles.
- Listen to what I have to say and give at least some respons to it. You don't have to go on talking and talking...I can do most of the talk myself quite easy, if you're shy or something, but only if I feel like you're listening, so you'd have to nodd or say "mhm" "aha" or something once and a while. LOL I sound like an awfully chatty person!!!
-Laugh at my jokes. I love guys who laugh at my jokes:P who doesn't?
-be smart. Just you know, be logical or something. I'm a sucker for anyone who's good at math and physics or chess or whatever.... I deeply admire people who can put feelings aside abit and just reason about something....
...and now here's a tricky one, which I think has more to do with deeper level me and not so much my type....
-be difficult. Make me wait for your text or something. I will go absolutely crazy and get totally obsessed about "getting you" if you seem like you're "ungettable". I don't know why, triggers something inside me, and I'm not proud of it.