[ESFP] How to flirt with an ESFP

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This is a discussion on How to flirt with an ESFP within the ESFP Forum - The Performers forums, part of the SP's Temperament Forum- The Creators category; I'd like some tips... ;)...

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    ENTP - The Visionaries

    How to flirt with an ESFP

    I'd like some tips... ;)
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    ENTP - The Visionaries

    Just wink at them. They'll understand.

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    Yes, I'd like some tips, also ;)

    Where are the ESFP's?? It's been ... 20-something minutes already! Lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rosie4491 View Post
    I'd like some tips... ;)
    Hmm...? My esfp guy was a bit timid with flirting. Our relationship started out from OkCupid. He sent me a simple message, not even complimenting me. He started his compliments rather slowly (fear of rejection), until he started talking to his sister about me then he gained a bit more confidence. With his words and actions.

    I can't speak for ALL ESFPs but I do believe they are timid with feelings and flirting out of fear of rejection. Hell this is coming from an ENTJ, what is there to be feared? my motto is, you win some, you lose some...Its life!
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    Where are the ESFP females?

    @armika_armika , advice!! lol

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    ENTP - The Visionaries

    Quote Originally Posted by Kyandigaru View Post
    I can't speak for ALL ESFPs but I do believe they are timid with feelings and flirting out of fear of rejection. Hell this is coming from an ENTJ, what is there to be feared? my motto is, you win some, you lose some...Its life!
    This is true for me for women that I really like, but I have no problem seducing random women I don't have feelings for.

    How to flirt with an ESFP?
    Pretty much how you should flirt with anyone else I think. Show them that you are interested. We won't know unless you show it to us. So smile, move in closer to us and let your inner animal of sexual desire take you over. RWAR!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marac View Post
    This is true for me for women that I really like, but I have no problem seducing random women I don't have feelings for.

    How to flirt with an ESFP?
    Pretty much how you should flirt with anyone else I think. Show them that you are interested. We won't know unless you show it to us. So smile, move in closer to us and let your inner animal of sexual desire take you over. RWAR!
    I like how you mentioned having no problem seducing women you have NO feelings for... Maybe that's why men do certain things women can't bare to understand?...But that's a different story! LOL

    To OP, this is very true! An ESFP won't understand you like them unless they are sure its okay to make a move.
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    ISTP - The Mechanics

    The suspected ESFP I know doesn't flirt... it's weird... he's just kind of, there. He talks to me and tells me about his day and waves to me when I arrive and leave (and then makes a beeline to talk to me lol). Flirting... I got more from the ESTJ than I do from him.

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    ENTP - The Visionaries

    Be nice to them. Mission completed.
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    ESFP - The Performers

    Hm ok, I'm a girl, and I guess you're more interested in finding out how to flirt with an esfp male, but anywaysss...

    - Look at me. Like if I catch you looking at me I will notice that you've noticed me and I like that :D

    - Smile at me. I love smiles.

    - Listen to what I have to say and give at least some respons to it. You don't have to go on talking and talking...I can do most of the talk myself quite easy, if you're shy or something, but only if I feel like you're listening, so you'd have to nodd or say "mhm" "aha" or something once and a while. LOL I sound like an awfully chatty person!!!

    -Laugh at my jokes. I love guys who laugh at my jokes:P who doesn't?


    -be smart. Just you know, be logical or something. I'm a sucker for anyone who's good at math and physics or chess or whatever.... I deeply admire people who can put feelings aside abit and just reason about something....

    ...and now here's a tricky one, which I think has more to do with deeper level me and not so much my type....

    -be difficult. Make me wait for your text or something. I will go absolutely crazy and get totally obsessed about "getting you" if you seem like you're "ungettable". I don't know why, triggers something inside me, and I'm not proud of it.


     
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