I do the same thing word for word. But in my case, emotional attachment is at a lower level than that. I'm still attached to the person and after doing all that I want to do, I would tell her "hey, at least I come back to you every night, right?" ... The thing was that we both did that to each other, but she felt more isolated and unloved by me than the other way around because probably due to the F higher up the order.
I will throw myself into a relationship in the beginning, but I gradually back off and have noticed that this backing off can leave some people feeling insecure, as if my emotions are wavering. They're not, but I do need to feel free to pursue my curiosity wherever it takes me. My SO will always be my preference, but as an Se-dom, I dislike routine. I need to change it up once in a while. It doesn't mean that I want to change them up. But it does mean that I need them to be self-assured and confident in their own value.