Short version is: I'm an INFP, and I've been best friends with my ESTJ for going on 4 years. For almost all of our friendship, she was happily committed, and I didn't know I loved her. Cue this past 6 months, she's single, we start talking every day, and I realize I'm hopelessly, head over heels, want to marry her today levels of in love with her. She's said that she's not the person for me. But she also made a marriage pact with me because she wants kids by a certain age.
As an INFP, I frankly just keep hoping that somehow, she'll change her mind and realize she wants me. And I know you guys are blunt, and are going to tell me to get over myself, but it's worth a try. I know I don't have a chance in hell.
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