I seriously do not get along with her at all, in the slightest, but I want to and have wanted to for years and years.
I am a free spirited person who wings most things and goes with the flow. Not much bothers me and I like to live by my own means, often not taking things seriously at all. She's a highly self-disciplined, image-oriented, social butterfly who gets upset over the smallest things that don't go according to plan. We have three years age difference, her being younger than me.
I find that even being her older sister who just does her own thing, she still dislikes me or at least puts up an act of disliking me. I bought my mother flowers for mother's day and she threw a tantrum saying my gift is better than hers and went on a spiel along the lines of, "how dare you not include me in your gift idea". I don't understand her. She won't even hug me or compliment me in any way and I haven't done much to ever affect her life negatively outside my own personal struggles.
Another thing is that she's extremely spoiled being the youngest. She's 24 and I'm 27 so we're both adults, but she still gets the most attention in the family for being a go-getter and ESTJ just like my dad.
What are some things you like about your siblings, even if they are way different than you? What puts you off about them?