Ok I’ll start with a bit of background info. I am an ENFP female and became very good/best friends with and ESTJ in about a month or so. Then I did the stupid thing and ended falling in love with my best friend. I have been stuck in this trap for about 3-4 years so far. I told him once that I had a crush on him maybe the first year it happened but it was probably confusing since it wasn’t straightforward. I kinda hinted at it again another year, but still nothing really happened we just kinda acted the same way.
So here’s kinda how he acts with me:
-NEVER texts first (I mean he does sometimes but u get what I mean)
-when I do text him he’ll answer right away or at some point and will try carrying on the conversation
-Has dated 2-3 other girls while I had a crush on him and has always been closer to me than he has been with his girlfriend’s (more touchy with me than the person he’s in an relationship with)
-Teases me A LOT
-Has asked for my opinion on things a lot whether clothing wise or anything like that
I don’t know. I’ve been stuck in this hole for a while and am trying to figure out if I should focus on still trying to get his attention or eliminating my feelings.