I need to ask ESTJs, as an ENTP, there are some things this type does that I can't understand. I've seen it confirmed in other posts, and I'm not looking for support, just information. . How does an ESTJ get into a heated argument, say rotten or nasty things, not apologize for it, and then seconds later come back like nothing ever happened asking you for a favor? It's maddening. I would like to add more but it seems impossible to make paragraphs without everything bunching up together. Any advice to either issue available (ESTJ woes, paragraph woes. Well, not woes. Yeah woes.) I would like to connect with my mother, but I knew well before my type that I'm independent, self-confident, and I hate rules I see as irrational or unnecessary. My mother is, well, an ESTJ. She loves me like a mother loves her firstborn but I just feel this dead space between us. Anyone help a mother and a son?