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This is a discussion on Help within the ESTJ Forum - The Guardians forums, part of the SJ's Temperament Forum- The Overseers category; There's nothing wrong with you. Forums like this don't hold our attention for long. There are few other S's here. ...

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    There's nothing wrong with you. Forums like this don't hold our attention for long. There are few other S's here. They often don't stay long, or they don't post much. There aren't many threads on the SJ and SP boards. So it's difficult to talk to people with the same viewpoints as yourself, or learn more about your personality. I think that's what you're looking for. You want this to add some value to your life. You aren't going to find it in a vacuum.

    With a couple of exceptions, I don't think the N's hate us or anything. Many of them are very lovely people, Lance is great, and the mods are fair ... but over here we're easy to ignore. It's like there is an thick black line dividing S and N. I just can't connect somehow ... It's weird. I've never felt like this any other place.

  2. #12
    INFP - The Idealists

    It's like there is an thick black line dividing S and N. I just can't connect somehow ... It's weird.
    Speaking of that, all of my close friends "in real life" are N types, this must unfortunately not be a coincidence. Not that i don't like S types, but as you said, i just can't connect. :(

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sidewinder View Post
    There's nothing wrong with you. Forums like this don't hold our attention for long. There are few other S's here. They often don't stay long, or they don't post much. There aren't many threads on the SJ and SP boards. So it's difficult to talk to people with the same viewpoints as yourself, or learn more about your personality. I think that's what you're looking for. You want this to add some value to your life. You aren't going to find it in a vacuum.

    With a couple of exceptions, I don't think the N's hate us or anything. Many of them are very lovely people, Lance is great, and the mods are fair ... but over here we're easy to ignore. It's like there is an thick black line dividing S and N. I just can't connect somehow ... It's weird. I've never felt like this any other place.

    That's not true in all cases, Sidewinder. There's definitely connection between N's and S's, you just have to spend a little bit more time in trying to get to know them. Personally, I've had a lot of S types that have been my best friends. So sure there's connection, don't be disencouraged, okay?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Viktoria View Post

    That's not true in all cases, Sidewinder. There's definitely connection between N's and S's, you just have to spend a little bit more time in trying to get to know them. Personally, I've had a lot of S types that have been my best friends. So sure there's connection, don't be disencouraged, okay?
    Thanks. It's nice to hear that. I'm not really discouraged, just a little confused.

    I do try to get to know the N's. I am friends with several in real life too. Maybe just being explicit about our personality causes people to magnify our differences compared to real life.

    Well, I don't wanna run away with WickedQueen's thread though, so I'll stop at that.
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    INFP - The Idealists


    I think you are getting in touch with you're INFP. That is a part of you whether you know it or not. We mirror each other.

    Sometimes, I act A LOT like you.




    But, Lance is right. You're ESTJ is kicking in.

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    ESTJ - The Guardians

    I think TreeBob is right. Not many threads here excite me. I rather meet people in real life and actively hang out with them than reading threads or writing posts that rarely got responses. It feels like rejection to me. Plus, I don't feel connected emotionally with most of the people on this forum.

    I'm not complaining or hating anybody here, I'm just simply being straightforward.


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  8. #17

    Then simply do what you'd rather do.

  9. #18
    ESTJ - The Guardians

    Quote Originally Posted by McCoffee View Post
    Then simply do what you'd rather do.
    I wish I could do that too. But there's not much things going on right now at work. It's "layout" time, means I have to working more than 10 hours a day in front of computer. So thats why I make this thread. I was wondering, what kind of threads on this forum that could make me excited, since I consider most of it are boring (sorry).


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  10. #19

    Quote Originally Posted by WickedQueen View Post
    I wish I could do that too. But there's not much things going on right now at work. It's "layout" time, means I have to working more than 10 hours a day in front of computer. So thats why I make this thread. I was wondering, what kind of threads on this forum that could make me excited, since I consider most of it are boring (sorry).


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    If most of them are boring to you, start making threads of your own. What interests/excites you?

  11. #20
    ESTJ - The Guardians

    Quote Originally Posted by McCoffee View Post
    If most of them are boring to you, start making threads of your own. What interests/excites you?
    That's the point. I don't know what excites me except for some nearly-death-adventures in a wild nature.


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