This is a discussion on Are INFP and ESTJ a good match? within the ESTJ Forum - The Guardians forums, part of the SJ's Temperament Forum- The Overseers category; Originally Posted by Paragon Quite frankly, ESTJ's scare me. I don't ever see how I could even approach one in ...
I wouldn't mind someone just grounded and stable these days.
I always had a thing for ENTPs, but recently, after being around a few so frequently...I'm just tired of fluff and irrelevant nonsense, people pleasing and man-child behaviour paired with pointless over-thinking (I mean we can't both be constantly analysing everything -- it doesn't bring out the best in me). Being around my boss is probably the closest thing to an ESTJ (he is ISTJ) and we get along quite well.
I got an ESTJ co-worker, she's cool and I get the feeling there is something between us.