[ESTJ] Are INFP and ESTJ a good match?

Are INFP and ESTJ a good match?

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    ESTJ - The Guardians

    Are INFP and ESTJ a good match?

    These types are obviously complete opposites, so, are they a good match?
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    ENTJ - The Executives

    may be very very hard for infp. kinda for 1 side it wud seem like its all good, but for the other one can be complete heck...

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    INFP - The Idealists

    No. Unless they are both VERY self-aware.
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    INFJ - The Protectors

    according to socionics it is a good match that will need a lot of work at first, but it also pays off in the end
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    ENFP - The Inspirers

    The short and sweet answer: No.
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    INTP - The Thinkers

    Quite frankly, ESTJ's scare me. I don't ever see how I could even approach one in the first place.
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    INFP - The Idealists

    I admire ESTJs
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    INFP - The Idealists

    This pair will most likely thrive due to the infp's willingness to understand the estj...but once the estj takes full advantage of his partner and this realization comes to light it may fall apart. I was married to one, beautiful as long as I supported him in what he wanted, sad but empowering breaking away and paying attention to me :)

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    INFP - The Idealists

    No. Nope. Nada.
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    INFP - The Idealists

    We haven't received any single answer from ESTJ point of view!
    I admire them as person. However there's particular feeling* that it would be difficult internally connect with them, yeah, that is expected. Other than that, I have no issue with them. Their bluntness might be good for INFPs. I have no real evidence though - my dad seems like ESTJ and I actually have some critical issues with him, hardly get along, haha..

    ... okay, INFPs can also see through the good intention of the action and get over it, but if we choose to confront them frontally, it probably results trust issue in relationship. I am not sure and I can't speak for INFP as general. It's all about preference in its varying degree. It's understandable how difficult it is to see from a view which is total opposite of you - yet that doesn't mean it's impossible.

    I think we should quit thinking that certain type can't get along with this type, that's pre-assumption. If things can't work, there's explanation how that might not work, but theory about possibility why it doesn't work can not make things absolutely will never work.

    *I read other type' venting thread sometimes and this is one of reasons why 'thinkers' get annoyed with 'feelers', because they feel like this and use it to make judgment/decision.

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