(Posted also to ISTJ, for I don't know if he is E/I.)
So I'm INFP female myself and have a big crush on ESTJ male. We have known each others for a year and became friends. He is maybe the kindest person I know. Last half a year we spent a lot of time together. I feel that he was always trying to find a reason to meet me and then we ended up cooking food together, watching movies etc. He always helped me with all the manly stuff I could not do myself and noticed if I was having a bad day and tried to cheer me up. He also flirted a bit and also told that I had nice outfits. If I asked him to join an event he was always there, even when I thought he would definitely not be interested in that event. I think his roommate thought that we had something going on and teased him a bit.
The sad thing is that he moved away. And I realize that I am thinking about him everyday. We have some plans to do a trip together with him and maybe some friends, and I will see him once before that, NEXT WEEK. (The trip being in September.)
So does it sound like he is just friendly or might he like me back? Should I tell him that I like him? Or will that scare him away? Should I do it before or after the trip? And how should I do it?
Please help, I have never told anyone that I like them!!