Okay, now that I have your attention...
I'm an INFJ who is baffled by what gets ESTJs turned on.
I don't know if it makes any difference but we are a same sex female couple. Actually I'd love to hear from gay, straight, bi ESTJs both male and female. Without being overly graphic what things do you like (or would you like) your partner to do to get you "fired up"? And while you're at it, what things are turn offs?
For as long as my partner and I have been together (going on 25 years) it wasn't until we were in couples counseling a few years ago that we learned about personality/ temperament - sure explained a lot for both of us (LOL). Interestingly enough, at that time I was more of an INFP (and I still have my moments there). Unfortunately we never touched on how our temperaments approached sex. All I know is that it doesn't take much for her to get me going (she's a very talented kisser) but I have never been able to figure out what does it for her (and she seems to have a hard time knowing herself).
I posted a similar question in Intro's but just found where you ESTJ's hang out. Hoping to get some helpful feedback.