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This is a discussion on ESTJs and sex :) within the ESTJ Forum - The Guardians forums, part of the SJ's Temperament Forum- The Overseers category; Okay, now that I have your attention... I'm an INFJ who is baffled by what gets ESTJs turned on. I ...

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    ESTJs and sex :)

    Okay, now that I have your attention...

    I'm an INFJ who is baffled by what gets ESTJs turned on.

    I don't know if it makes any difference but we are a same sex female couple. Actually I'd love to hear from gay, straight, bi ESTJs both male and female. Without being overly graphic what things do you like (or would you like) your partner to do to get you "fired up"? And while you're at it, what things are turn offs?

    For as long as my partner and I have been together (going on 25 years) it wasn't until we were in couples counseling a few years ago that we learned about personality/ temperament - sure explained a lot for both of us (LOL). Interestingly enough, at that time I was more of an INFP (and I still have my moments there). Unfortunately we never touched on how our temperaments approached sex. All I know is that it doesn't take much for her to get me going (she's a very talented kisser) but I have never been able to figure out what does it for her (and she seems to have a hard time knowing herself).

    I posted a similar question in Intro's but just found where you ESTJ's hang out. Hoping to get some helpful feedback.

    Thanks!
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    ESTJ - The Guardians

    I like when my guy makes little comments all day about what he's gonna do to me later. It puts me in the mood and I like the anticipation. Of course, I have a high sex drive and am always ready. Wish he did! lol I also like it when he comes up from behind me and starts kissing my neck and whispering in my ear! mmm I'm getting worked up now!!! hahaha
    What I don't like is when we're in bed and he ask me if I want to have sex! That turns me off! Just start kissing and touching me for pete's sake! Don't ask me!! hahaha

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    ESTJ - The Guardians

    Knowing that he wants me in bed, simply because I am me and not because I'm a human with vagina and boobs, is enough to turn me on.

    Heck, he can just give me 'the look', and I'm all his.
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    ENFP - The Inspirers

    Quote Originally Posted by WickedQueen View Post
    Knowing that he wants me in bed, simply because I am me and not because I'm a human with vagina and boobs, is enough to turn me on.

    Heck, he can just give me 'the look', and I'm all his.





    ................ aww it didn't work! :-(
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    Quote Originally Posted by Diamonic View Post
    I like when my guy makes little comments all day about what he's gonna do to me later. It puts me in the mood and I like the anticipation. Of course, I have a high sex drive and am always ready. Wish he did! lol I also like it when he comes up from behind me and starts kissing my neck and whispering in my ear! mmm I'm getting worked up now!!! hahaha
    What I don't like is when we're in bed and he ask me if I want to have sex! That turns me off! Just start kissing and touching me for pete's sake! Don't ask me!! hahaha
    LOL! D, sounds like we share the same likes/dislikes. While I don't expect turn-ons/offs to be universal by type I am curious to know how ESTJs experience flirting, foreplay and so forth. Lets' face it, ESTJ's are thinkers and planners, ISTJ's more spontaneous feelers. Over the years my partner and I have learned the fine art of "planned spontaneity". Since she's the only ESTJ that I knowingly know of, especially in an intimate way, forums like this are about the only other place I can think of to learn more my Guardian friends.

    Thanks for your post.
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    ESTJ - The Guardians

    Quote Originally Posted by The King Of Dreams View Post





    ................ aww it didn't work! :-(
    No, it didn't work at all. The ear has ruin everything. Sorry.
    *vomits*
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    ENFP - The Inspirers

    Quote Originally Posted by WickedQueen View Post
    No, it didn't work at all. The ear has ruin everything. Sorry.
    *vomits*
    Can you blame me for trying? LOL

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    ESTJ - The Guardians

    I like attention. If he ignore's me all day, then starts kissing me right before bed... sorry but NOTHING is happening that night (except for a big fight). When it comes to touch... it needs to be suggestive for quite a while tease me a bit, kinda how having on teasing, slightly revealing clothing is more alluring than something that shows everything.
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    ESTJ - The Guardians

    Touch, lots of touch. I love to be touched. Hands on my lap, in my hair, rubbing my back, just holding my hands. And as WickedQueen pointed out, knowing that he wants me for me (and being told that he wants me), and not just as a sperm receptacle!
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    ESTJ - The Guardians

    Submit to the ESTJ if you are comfortable, and they will reward you ten-fold if they are anything like me. To a dominant partner the submission is invaluable.
    WickedQueen, Azelll, countrygirl90 and 9 others thanked this post.


     
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