[ESTP] ever had bad sex?

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This is a discussion on ever had bad sex? within the ESTP Forum - The Doers forums, part of the SP's Temperament Forum- The Creators category; Barring complete incompatibility and probably you usually choose people there's sexual chemistry with, have you ever had bad sex? I ...

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    ever had bad sex?

    Barring complete incompatibility and probably you usually choose people there's sexual chemistry with, have you ever had bad sex? I think Se (from my perspective as INFP) is this hyper-focusing ability that probably is really conducive to having great sex.

    The reason I wonder this is because as INFP even though sexual compatibility is one of my top musts, I usually want emotional connectedness to be able to shut my brain off and engage fully. I recently had an experience with an ESTP where tbh I didn't know what I was going to expect and had no emotional connection, but by golly it was hours of no thoughts and pure carnal sweetness.

    second reason is because sexual compatibility is really high on my list for long term commitment too, if i can learn to be more like Se then I can have great sex with anybody?



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    Not that I recall. Usually, if they suck at kissing then that is as far as it gets.

    I have had great sex with people I am not compatible with for a long term commitment. There was one guy all we did was disagree on everything and debated our way to the bedroom ~the sex was awesome.

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    Can't have bad sex if you never had sex

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    Not ESTP but still
    Se aux here. Asexual here.

    I do not Believe Se has any kind of correlation with sex
    Or that you need Se to have mind-blowing sex
    Or any of the above

    *cue to profile picture shrug*

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    Although exceedingly rare, it has happened. Usually because one of us wasn't on the same page about something or another. If one person wants to use sex as a means to rekindle the relationship or otherwise reconnect on an emotional level, it's not gonna be pretty if the other person just wants raw, unfiltered NSA sex.

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    Yeah. I hate when the girl behaves like a dead body
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    yeah, bad sex is when i dont get reaction from the other person.... resulting in a boring/deadfish lay. lack of confidence in the other person, inexperience, issues with shame/shyness... these are all things i'd notice in bed that would throw me out of the zone.

    the first couple times having sex with a person is usually enough passion to have great sex with anybody; after i get to know them and some of their emotions start creeping in... it gets difficult to not feel the sadness or insecurities... then i usually just end up wanting to talk instead.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ziegel View Post
    the girl behaves like a dead body
    Quote Originally Posted by nablur View Post
    a boring/deadfish lay.
    Yes, I've heard rumors about this. Apparently some women don't really respond to any type of stimulation in particular, but at the same time, they'll still consent to the activity itself, almost as if it's on the same level as doing laundry or some other menial chore.

    Apparently they may not be altogether thrilled about the prospect itself and yet all the same it's still better to get done.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ziegel View Post
    Yeah. I hate when the girl behaves like a dead body
    Try not to kill them, then
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    Quote Originally Posted by Looniemoon View Post
    Yes, I've heard rumors about this. Apparently some women don't really respond to any type of stimulation in particular, but at the same time, they'll still consent to the activity itself, almost as if it's on the same level as doing laundry or some other menial chore.

    Apparently they may not be altogether thrilled about the prospect itself and yet all the same it's still better to get done.
    yeah, that seems accurate. unfortunately - im not the type of person who wants to be a chore. i prefer my partners to want me to fuck them as much as i do. if i get the sense they are just going through the motions - im done.
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