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  1. #21
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    Divorced 5 years, Father of 2 that I have 100% they're 10 and 7.
    X moved to Utah and became a born again Mormon, I kid you not.... Millenials (just kidding) (maybe).
    Recently got out of a fairly serious 6 month relationship... Mostly over it, trying to figure out how to date again. The last relationship went well enough that I'm interested in more.
    Have dated quite a few women... most women that get to the physically intimate stage tend to last a while... which can actually be a problem if they're staying with me for the wrong reasons....So starting to think about delaying a physical relationship for a month or 2, but not sure how to do that as I've never done it before.

    Pros, I'm done with Alimony so finally have a bit of extra spending cash, My passport is up to date and I have a great sitting network for my kids. I've got a great job that steady, I've been given I a lead position which I'm pretty good at.
    Cons, the X-wife calls the kids every school morning which might be hard for some to take. Have treated sleep apnea (which can be a pro too since it stops snoring). Haven't bought a house yet after the divorce because of the alimony, the good side of that is I'm more mobile.

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    I've moved East. Ironically, the state I now live in contains her name (Maryland). I'm okay with my life now. I still miss the place she used to inhabit, but I know she's no longer that person anymore, so I'd best figure out my life on my own. We still text regularly. She's in Tennessee, which is pretty funny because she can't stand the "slowness" of Southern life.

    I've got friends here now. I've got a companion whom I spend a lot time with. I'd like to say we're "courting," but I don't know if that's the right word for it. We're keeping it strictly friendly for now. She's been there for me when I needed someone. I hope I've done the same for her. I think she's got a lot of demons in her past that make it hard for her to see herself being in love again. I hope with time, and patience, maybe we can overcome those fears we both share.

  3. #23

    Quote Originally Posted by tanstaafl28 View Post
    Divorced. No kids. Non-existent. I can't seem to bring myself to go through all that effort to impress/get to know a woman. I miss my ex-wife terribly, but that person appears to have been replaced by an alien.
    Hugs. So sorry about that. I feel that there is someone out there who can really appreciate you. Best wishes.

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    So, it turns out I am in love with three people....yes, THREE people. I am 38 and I'm really looking to settle down with someone. Can't seem to choose though. I happen to be a virgin...there I said it! Lol. So it's not about the endless nights together and all that jazz. It's just hard to choose lol. One is a musician, the other one is a comedian and the other one is super adorable! *sigh* Somebody help!!!! 😂
    Last edited by jubilee_xo; 12-15-2018 at 11:29 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jubilee_xo View Post
    So, it turns out I am in love with three people....yes, THREE people. I am 38 and I'm really looking to settle down with someone. Can't seem to choose though. I happen to be a virgin...there I said it! Lol. So it's not about the endless nights together and all that jazz. It's just hard to choose lol. One is a musician, the other one is a comedian and the other one is super adorable! *sigh* Somebody help!!!! 😂
    What is your MBTI, & their's? It would help to understand the dynamics better. And are they in love with you?

  7. #26

    Quote Originally Posted by Mmmm View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by jubilee_xo View Post
    So, it turns out I am in love with three people....yes, THREE people. I am 38 and I'm really looking to settle down with someone. Can't seem to choose though. I happen to be a virgin...there I said it! Lol. So it's not about the endless nights together and all that jazz. It's just hard to choose lol. One is a musician, the other one is a comedian and the other one is super adorable! *sigh* Somebody help!!!! 😂
    What is your MBTI, & their's? It would help to understand the dynamics better. And are they in love with you?
    I have no idea lol. I'm new here so I wouldn't know about the dynamics you mentioned. And yes, they are in love with me. 😍

  8. #27
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    Quote Originally Posted by jubilee_xo View Post
    I have no idea lol. I'm new here so I wouldn't know about the dynamics you mentioned. And yes, they are in love with me. 😍
    When I said dynamics, I mean, how your personalities get along. They seem like 3 very different people. You probably need to ask yourself, who is best suited for you? Which one seems to communicate with you more readily, which one understands you better, & whose company would you miss the most. Do they know about each other?

  9. #28

    Quote Originally Posted by Mmmm View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by jubilee_xo View Post
    I have no idea lol. I'm new here so I wouldn't know about the dynamics you mentioned. And yes, they are in love with me. 😍
    When I said dynamics, I mean, how your personalities get along. They seem like 3 very different people. You probably need to ask yourself, who is best suited for you? Which one seems to communicate with you more readily, which one understands you better, & whose company would you miss the most. Do they know about each other?
    Well, they don't know about each other. I feel I am lucky enough to have spent time with all three of them. I think I know who I would miss the most and who communicates with me best.

  10. #29
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    Quote Originally Posted by jubilee_xo View Post
    Well, they don't know about each other. I feel I am lucky enough to have spent time with all three of them. I think I know who I would miss the most and who communicates with me best.
    Maybe that will help you narrow it down then.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mmmm View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by jubilee_xo View Post
    Well, they don't know about each other. I feel I am lucky enough to have spent time with all three of them. I think I know who I would miss the most and who communicates with me best.
    Maybe that will help you narrow it down then.
    Thanks! 😁


     
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