Divorced 5 years, Father of 2 that I have 100% they're 10 and 7.
X moved to Utah and became a born again Mormon, I kid you not.... Millenials (just kidding) (maybe).
Recently got out of a fairly serious 6 month relationship... Mostly over it, trying to figure out how to date again. The last relationship went well enough that I'm interested in more.
Have dated quite a few women... most women that get to the physically intimate stage tend to last a while... which can actually be a problem if they're staying with me for the wrong reasons....So starting to think about delaying a physical relationship for a month or 2, but not sure how to do that as I've never done it before.
Pros, I'm done with Alimony so finally have a bit of extra spending cash, My passport is up to date and I have a great sitting network for my kids. I've got a great job that steady, I've been given I a lead position which I'm pretty good at.
Cons, the X-wife calls the kids every school morning which might be hard for some to take. Have treated sleep apnea (which can be a pro too since it stops snoring). Haven't bought a house yet after the divorce because of the alimony, the good side of that is I'm more mobile.