I'm a type 9 and Ive known 7 for 14yrs so i have seen both healthy and unhealthy versions. We cant seem to move past friendship he will come on strong then leave before i can even react. He cuts off communication says im closed off and is dating someone new. When that doesnt work he returns puts his charm on me and does the exact same thing again. I get hurt (like most 9s) bringing up all past hurt in some text he probably never got cause he blockd me. I guess i wouldnt care if i have not been a friend for so long and have seen the true healthy version of him which i love by the way. Anyway need some advice pleease on whats causing him to escape?