I'm stuck between 4w3 and 3w4 as a heart.
4 does sound a lot like me. I've always been obsessed with uniqueness, whether that's being unique in everything I do or having the feeling of being unique. By feeling unique, I've always felt like I can't relate to others, that I'm different even if I can't put it into words. I get annoyed about being misunderstood and yet I want to be. I'd say my sad side is part of who I am. I don't want to be depressed 24/7, but it feels weird being too happy. I am highly introverted so a withdrawn heart would work well. I'm pretty introspective and wonder who I am a lot, what my identity is.
But then some 4 things don't resonate. They want to be rescued, and I don't care about that. Heck, I'd rather rescue-it's a caring thing to do and being rescued makes me feel weak. I also have a love hate relationship with sad things. While I wallow in sadness and like sad music, I usually avoid sad movies or horror. Also, 4s are described as reactive, and I don't think that's me. Maybe my 9 is cooling me down, but yeah, I'm pretty calm and I don't freak out much.
Then there's 3. I kinda want to be famous. Like not overly so, all the attention feels weird. But it would be cool being a YouTuber or famous blogger, so a kinda behind the scenes fame. Also I think my love of uniqueness is 3ish too as I feel like it makes me stand out and be artistic and creative. Like I'll wear funky clothes or eat weird stuff for dares. I hate failure or looking dumb, though I might laugh at my silliness. I have a shame in not living up to my personal standards of success.
With 3, I'm not very assertive I don't think(then again the 9). And even though I worry about failure, to a point I'm kinda a simpleton when it comes to success. Like I'd like to go on vacations and win the lottery, but I'll also be like, "I don't need a big house" and can be pretty lazy at times.
So yeah, do you think 3w4 or 4w3?