I took a few online tests that generally gave me results that put 3 and 4 about even (sometimes 4 came out on top, and sometimes 3 did) and 7 just a few points below. Although online tests aren't always the most accurate, I'm going to go ahead and assume that this means that I'm either a 4w3 or a 3w4. I thought I was a 4w3 because when I read the description it seemed to perfectly describe me, but when I started reading posts in the Type 4 forum on here I sort of felt like...I don't identify with all of that. This post is making me feel like maybe I'm a 3w4 instead? Unless I'm in denial about feeling like a special snowflake. But it seems like a lot of people bring up the fact that type 4s are very focused on their negative emotions and their own personal dramas, and while I'm not going to deny that I do get really emotional at times, I feel like my focus is much more oriented on the positive (at least, I try to focus on the positive! I don't like dwelling on sadness or insecurity, whether or not the two do come my way)
So I'm kind of bumping this post and hoping that some of you who know more about enneagram can maybe differentiate a little bit more between 4w3 and 3w4. Because I am so, so lost.