This is a discussion on Why is everyone a 4w5? within the Heart Triad - Types 2,3,4 forums, part of the Enneagram Personality Theory Forum category; Originally Posted by Strelok I haven't noticed that myself. Maybe because it's slow and insidious. On the surface it looks ...
Because everyone thinks they’re original
I think it could be because 4w5 tend to be more introverted than 4w3. So introverts are more likely to on the computer. Also, the 5 wing adds a desire to explore topics, research, etc.
Okay, so maybe my trifix is 4w5, but only because there's not a shred of 3 going on in me.
Beacause REAL 4w5 are fucking original
The problem with being a four is that i sometimes don't feel unique enough to qualify as a four, and that i feel like i'm not enough of a drama queen to be a four, though... maybe i am sometimes... because people often annoy me for things like i should shut up or stop being philosophical lol...
I relate best to 4w3, 4w5 and 6w5. The 4w3 descriptions feel less accurate, but I'm a very image-oriented person... and really feel ashamed when i can't adhere to what other people expect from me, and in some way it is really conflicting for me, because i want to show my "real" me to other people, but i don't want to come off as a failure. I'm sometimes more busy with what other people want... or them telling me that i'm right... But i'm a clear example of a so subtype. I'm just not sure if i'm a so 4w5 or a 4w3. Sometimes i'm afraid i'm too interested in (earth) sciences to possibly be a four... but i just don't know.
My biggest fear is to be a fake four.
Last edited by Lakigigar; 08-17-2018 at 08:52 PM.