My last serious relationship was with an ESTJ. Definitely either 3,6 or 1. Sp/sx. We honestly seem like the most incompatible couple on earth but trust me, there were times when we worked great as a team and there were also times where we couldn't come to a compromised conclusion. Anyways, I really appreciated how he is very grounded, disciplined, orderly, ambitious, and not overly emotional. He's one of the few guys I've met with clear career goals.
I'm fancying someone right now who has big 8 energy. He's extremely direct, realistic and he knows what he wants. I've also never seen him engage in toxic gossip. I like that about him. He also weirdly have a very similar taste in fashion as me.. He can be bossy at times, but it doesn't bother me too much.
I can't stand people are who too emotional, needy and immature. Merge that with have no clear career goals along with being extremely ignorant of social issues and you'll see me standing and waving a huge red flag LOL.
Now, which type will that be?