As a 4w5, I never really cared about success or fame. So the 3 side is alien to me.
I both care about what others think, and don't care what others think.
For example, if I produce a piece of art and they weren't accepted by people... ehh, I wouldn't care.
If I thought that people were beneath me, I wouldn't care.
If someone directly insults me and decide that he is just a nasty person, I wouldn't care. However, I would care if the person was usually nice or something.
If some random person looks at me funny or something, I would care. I am really terrified of rejection and being hated, but I don't mind being an outcast.
So it's weird... I both care A LOT about what others think, and at other times, I don't. It's almost as if I pick and choose what to care and what not to care .