I'm an INTJ and I've recently developed a crush on a guy who I'm 99% sure is an INFJ. We met over a month ago and we see each other a lot throughout the week but always in group settings. When we first met he seemed really friendly with me and would joke around by sneaking up behind me and would come up and talk to me a lot and stare at me from across the room when he thought I wasn't looking. He would also kind of linger near me without talking. I thought this meant he was starting to like me, too. But all of a sudden he just stopped talking to me and he'll laugh and talk with everyone else in the room but completely avoid me. I feel like he still watches me but only so he can be sure we're not near each other.
There's no way he could know that I'm starting to crush on him so I didn't think he was ignoring me because he was creeped out by my feelings, but I also tried to smile more at him whenever he did talk to me so he didn't think I wasn't interested (a bad INTJ trait). I try to initiate conversations myself but he's always surrounding himself with his friends whenever I'm nearby and that's a bit more intimidating so I just hang back.
I know everyone is different but I could really use the opinion of an INFJ, especially a male one. Thanks!