Could you guys see an INFJ doing this? I'm kind of confused as to what MBTI type I am (leaning towards some combo of Se/Ni and Ti/Fe) and I know that I act this way, so I wonder if you could see an INFJ doing this.
I often have my eyes open, looking for a person who satisfies my fancy. It's pretty regular that I end up developing some sort of crush on someone for all kinds of reasons. I see goodness is most people and if there is a good quality in someone I will often start obsessively thinking about that person. I imagine all kinds of things about this person and put them up on a pedestal in my mind.
Now, I'm a fairly attractive girl and I can be flirty when comfortable. I passively try and find ways to be around this person, and I shower them with my attention when they're around. It usually doesn't take long for people to realize I am interested. And, it usually doesn't take long for me to figure out their feelings about me. If they show any signs of not being interested I cut myself off quickly and turn my thoughts to other things until I forget about them.
But, when they ARE interested, thats when things get interesting. I usually throw myself into the relationship. I follow their lead, for the most part, but things move quickly. I am a very affectionate person, so I start hand holding, hugging and kissing early. I spend all my time with that person (as much as we can take, I am a fairly introverted person and I need a lot of alone time) and slowly learn all about them.
And as quickly as I fell for their unique aspects, I start to see how they are the same as everyone else. I see the faults in their character, I see the problems that plague their mind, and I stop being interested. Their cute actions start to reveal a not so pleasant interior. I know its horrible, but I usually end things at this point.
And as soon as my mind stops thinking about that person, a new unique person will present themselves, and the cycle continues.
If you couldn't see an INFJ acting this way (and trust me, I'm not proud of myself, but I feel how I feel in relationships), what type could you see acting this way?
Anyone relate to this at all?