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How to deal with evil/misguided People who dehumanize and try to hurt you?

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#1 ·
Hello, i'm new here, but lurking since a long time and very into MBTI, it gave me a great tool to understand myself and others.

Since i am an INFJ Enneagramm 1 i see myself driven by doing the right thing, sadly this kind of behaviour is not always welcomed.

I found myself in the situation of being stalked and branded as a bad person mostly by extremist groups and misguided people who think they are doing good.
My crime was basically telling the truth about a lot of topics, like Feminism, Race and IQ, biological Differences between people and standing up for the agonized people of my homeland who are afraid of speaking out while facing a lot of rapes, child abuse, manslaughter and other kinds of abuse by foreigners who have been let into the country by corrupt elites and brainwashed Ideologues.

The Media is really pushing a narrative that brands me as an enemy, i get completely devalued by those people, they dig into my private live and try to hurt my emotionally while stalking me and threatening me physically. They don't seem to know any boundaries, since i am very open about abuse i faced to break the taboo, they have a lot to taunt me with and i am just shocked how far those people go.

I'm not sure why i am writing this, maybe i just need to rant about this and don't know where else to put it.
I just don't get how people can be so cruel, they don't even know me but look at me like i was the worst person ever only because i try to help my people and tell the truth.

I know that this world is not fair, I'm very far from being naive, and i guess i understand how people work to some degree, but it is very difficult for me to be such a sensitive and kind hearted person to be put in a situation where the people are told to "let loose" all ther internal frustration and lash it out on you as a person, completely dehumanizing you.

I also have an ISFJ stalker now, he is an contra-phobic 6 and talks about harming people who have a different opinion than himself a lot on social media. I tried to de-escalate after he threatened me, but he is very radicalised and seems to feel nothing for me than a will of destruction.
I did never do anything to him, but for him i am the enemy.

I don't know how to deal with this, maybe i do, but venting about this made me feel better all-ready, thanks for taking the time to read this, and sorry if this is somehow inappropriate here.
 
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#52 ·
I am sure I am missing a lot here of the context here. But, what's with the whole race and IQ thing and why are you being admonished for that? What was it that you said before that is causing this outrage?

Also, leaving aside the above particular question, I understand that it must be really difficult for you at this time dealing with all this. Have you involved the police? Are you gathering evidence of these people stalking and threatening to you?

And last, but not least important, INFJs or any other F types are not illogical or unable to use rationality or logic. Anyone who chooses to dismiss F types on this obviously don't know what they are talking about. So, I'd personally ignore anyone claiming anything as generalized and stupid as that.
 
#53 ·
My crime was basically telling the truth about a lot of topics, like Feminism, Race and IQ, biological Differences between people and standing up for the agonized people of my homeland who are afraid of speaking out while facing a lot of rapes, child abuse, manslaughter and other kinds of abuse by foreigners who have been let into the country by corrupt elites and brainwashed Ideologues.
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How did this racist rubbish get 7 thanks...? This whole post is basically admitting you are a literal racist - by the definition - who is fearlessly pushing for the truth on these topics but somehow you're the victim. And how can you possibly be so devoted to telling people the "truth" about "race and IQ" and call yourself a "kind hearted and sensitive person who just wants to tell the truth." Hahahahahaha this is ridiculous. We all know there is no connection between race and IQ, there is a connection between education and IQ, and obviously if someone lives in a rural part of the world and works on a farm or doesn't read books from an early age the development of their brain is not going to be pushed to its capacity. Add in a corrupt government which under-funds education and you get the same result in any people brought up regardless of their "race". You don't seem to care and just want to demonise people using this "fact" though which is why I don't trust this sob story or a word you're saying as even-handed or objective.

Nobody here or anywhere should give you the light of day, by the way.
 
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