[INFJ] why infj have a problem with people, with esp feedback, it's like smoke coming back..

why infj have a problem with people, with esp feedback, it's like smoke coming back..

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This is a discussion on why infj have a problem with people, with esp feedback, it's like smoke coming back.. within the INFJ Forum - The Protectors forums, part of the NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers category; Hi all on Weihnachten :-) so, why infj have a problem with people, with esp feedback, it's like smoke coming ...

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    why infj have a problem with people, with esp feedback, it's like smoke coming back..

    Hi all on Weihnachten :-)

    so, why infj have a problem with people, with esp feedback, it's like smoke coming back from the fireplace ...

    https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/i...hcHxuJD8_VWoqQ

    so, normally people give and receive feedback regarding especially current perceptions

    these are simple rules like drawing smoke into the chimney inside.

    but they do not do it and smoke goes to the flat

    that's why infj have to watch out for people ...



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    I think

    it something do with

    way people communicate ...

    people interpret

    differently. Imply

    differently.

    because of this ...

    http://www.conditionforlife.com/wp-c...-unknown-1.jpg

    so, there is fear not knowing what people might say.

    and infj are their own worst critic

    so, they make themselves more vulnerable

    before others have even had their say.

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    INFJ - The Protectors

    I would ask, what makes it so certain the other person has the better grasp on reality? And why do they feel the need to change their INFJ? Some feedback is valuable, but a lot of feedback is just noise or even projection. To use your analogy, I'm not going to suck the smoke from your fire just because you put the fire at my feet. I have to have an interest in maintaining that fire to do that. Basic boundaries.
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    but feedback is the basis of communication in itself, like the internet ... it's about access to it ... and not "what to send"

    not the headings in the newspaper ...

    you just have 360 degree and 3d look from other people and not just yours ...

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    Well most INFJs are not cut from the same block so to speak and as a result they have a mind of their own seeing things differently from the norm.
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    INFJ - The Protectors

    Quote Originally Posted by fabi View Post
    but feedback is the basis of communication in itself, like the internet ... it's about access to it ... and not "what to send"

    not the headings in the newspaper ...

    you just have 360 degree and 3d look from other people and not just yours ...
    From what I can tell, most INFJs have the opposite problem--letting others dictate too much how they think, feel, and so on--so when it comes to addressing feedback that isn't welcome, necessary, or something they've already considered, they are less graceful about how they decline it.


     

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